
It's been many days that I have been trying to collect my thoughts about this post.
My husband is a Captain in the San Antonio Fire Department. He was called up to start up the shelters at PORT SA here on the south side of San Antonio about 9/4/08. The first 10 days he worked (7 days a week) a 24 hr shift and had 12 hrs off (in which to eat and sleep) which was REALLY hard on my boys and myself (now I was trying to play all roles around here). So, the boys and I were able to see him (bleary eyed, horizontal in bed) for just a little bit of time every day. The storm by this time had come and went.
He talked about standing in his steel toed boots for 24 hours (no sleeping like at the fire house), the command phone ringing a minimum of 200 calls a shift, EVERYONE in his midst needing something different. For days he was on a search for baby formula, diapers, baby bottles and a microwave (which he stole out of the fire fighters break room) to have for the Mom's in the shelter to warm up the babies formula. See everything just wasn't there, it had to be ORDERED. So, they (evacuee's) would go for days without while the order was ON IT'S WAY. I guess it was his job to explain to these people (that had been in the same clothes for days) why the orders were not here yet. As you can image, exhausting.
About a week ago they changed his shift to be 12 hours on and 12 hours off, 7 days a week. So, at least there was some reprieve. But still 12 hrs to sleep, eat, and do his uniform washing routine (not an ounce of anything else). I have been amazed at his resilient nature and to still be in control of his emotions and duties of what needs to get done in order to help these people. The tasks are daunting.

He has had to help locate lost Grandmas, a lost 5 year old boy, lost siblings. These people walk in (some with no shoes on) with plastic bags of whatever was their life in it. Can you image if one of these precious trash bags was lost?
Then there was the day that some kids came up to him and mentioned that they had been looking for their Dad all day long, so the search went on. Only to find that he had died in a port a potty. Last night a 17 year old boy left the shelter to walk to Wal Mart (down the street from shelter) and while he was gone his family packed up and LEFT the shelter to check into a hotel AND NEVER CAME BACK FOR HIM! (not sure how this story ended, the last bit was the kid was hysterical and crying). So, the emotional turmoil of the lives that have been temporarily (?) broken from the storm goes on.
Today is his 14th day of working at the shelters. Now by this point I am exhausted (remember I'm NOT the one working the shelters)...but keeping the home-front in order (well, at least trying to). There has been dinner to cook, boys to get to school (on time), lunches made, homework done, grass to cut, cookies to bake (for the Fire Fighters working), special school projects (we are talking post board stuff) and algebra to do! There is a new schedule around this house also...leave right after my car pool duties straight to work (I drive with the windows down to dry my hair..hey, it saves time), be home by 4p.m. so I can get the boys, wake up my husband, fix dinner, send him out the door to the shelter.
Oh, did I mention that I need to work in between all of these duties and try to sell a house or two? I guess I'm am realizing just how much my husband HELPS ME with all of these details. So, life as I knew it before Ike has changed also...so much that I found myself crying on the front porch late last night (not out of pity, just pressure).

Everything on the media here in SA is about the bad that is going on with the shelter. Of course they only interview the evacuee's that feel that they have lost their rights while being in the shelters, that were told they could pick up their FEMA checks here (which is so not true), the people that are so pissed off that got arrested while being in the shelters for conduct or disruption. But, I do know for a fact that there have been many, many people that are gracious and thankful and appreciative of what has been allowed for them at the shelters. Of course you haven't seen one of these stories on the news, huh?
The night time in a strange place sometimes brings people together. There have been little old ladies that have hugged and thanked my husband. The confused elderly that he has helped them find their cots in the dark. The little lady that talked at length with my husband about what she has lost, how she has no family, no house and thanked him for "saving her". The little girl that knows that a man in uniform will hold her hand tightly and make her feel safe for a moment.
I tell you this story not because of what has happened to my little life recently, but what has happened to many. For my husband and ALL of the volunteers that are trying to make a difference. For my husband who has not complained once about his sore feet (I only found out because I watched him walk so funny from the pain), loss of sleep, loss of time with his family, personal time, nothing. No complaints. The only negative comment that he has said about this situation is "it's just so sad" and then he finished his sentence off with "we are so blessed".
Note from the Author: I have seen many times on AR how some words can be taken differently based on our own personal perceptions...keep in mind this post was not written with a "poor me" attitude. If you have perceived this in some way...you are mistaken. I am only trying to give you my perception in a difficult time.
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